Speak Out: Watered-Down Ultrasound Bill Passes House
Gov. Bob McDonnell retreats from past statements, says mandating invasive procedure "is not a proper role for the state." Tell us: Is the amended bill better?
Republican lawmakers and the governor backed down from supporting a bill Wednesday that may have required women seeking an abortion to undergo an invasive ultrasound.
After previously indicating his support for legislation that called for ultrasounds to determine the gestational age, Gov. Bob McDonnell (R) said he would not sign a bill that would require women to undergo a transvaginal ultrasound if it could not be obtained through an external one.
"Mandating an invasive procedure in order to give informed consent is not a proper role for the state," McDonnell said in a statement. "No person should be directed to undergo an invasive procedure by the state, without their consent, as a precondition to another medical procedure."
With the threat of veto, House Republicans submitted amendments that still require ultrasounds before a pregnancy may be terminated, but women may decline a transvaginal procedure. The bill passed 65-32-1.
Earlier in the day, the bill's sponsor, Sen. Jill Vogel (R-27th District) said she will likely move to strike her own bill in the Senate.
"There are moments when you are a legislator when you have to stop and you have to have a moment of real conscience," Vogel said, according to a Richmond Times-Dispatch article Wednesday. "I sort of had that moment this morning considering the outcome and the fate of this bill."
The bill drew criticism from several Democrats, who said the bill was one of many this session that focused on social issues instead of bigger state needs. It's was also the subject of an SNL skit on Saturday; on Tuesday, it was part of a segment on Comedy Central's The Daily Show with Jon Stewart.
Do you think the bill as amended is better than previous versions or is it still a violation of womens' rights? Speak Out In The Comments.
Monica Dolle Chiralo
7:06 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Really? " . . . or is it still a violation of womens' rights?" Not even a pretense of journalistic objectivity?
barbin
7:11 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
The one change being offered doesn't change how egregious the GOP's actions toward women are--including this bill. The Richmond Times Dispatch today in their business e-mail has a piece about Virginia increasing it's efforts to attract business--well, Virginia isn't going to attract business as long as it has a war on women. That war has now been hugely noticed by the national media. Thanks, GOP for denigrating our state
Mary Lambe
12:33 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
"Virginia isn't going to attract business as long as it has a war on women."
So true. That's so much more important than being a Right-to-Work state, maintaining low tax rates, and providing amenities such as parks, recreation, and transportation.
April
7:16 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Requiring any medical procedure that is against the will if the patient, is violation of patient and in this case, women's rights. Shame on Virginia.
Mike Ritter
7:35 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
For two steps forward, Virginia has taken 4 steps backwards. The GOO has shown what hypocrites they are. Just like in Florida, they preach jobs and the economy, yet their main goal is social engendering. They complain about Obamacare and the gov't coming between the Dr and Patiant but we see with the needless and costly ultrasound test, they force the Dr to perform a test that is not needed. They are the hypocrites of the highest order. Shame on the clowns in Richmond. The only reason Bobby McDonald pulled back on his support was due to sheer political reasons. Thank goodness he can only serve 1 term. He's a disaster has a governor . He is no Warner or Kaine. Even Maryland has created more jobs than McDonald. He's nothing more than a puppet to big business and whacky extremist right-wing special interests
Aimee Davis
7:38 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Supporters of this bill tell us that ultrasounds are standard practice before an abortion, so why do we need this unnecessary legislation? Com'on Richmond, get back to business - jobs, education, transportation.
Sarah O'Neil
7:51 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Both the Governor and the Delegate who originally proposed this bill find TSA patdowns unnecessarily invasive and a misuse of Government power. However, an invasive, mandatory ultrasound sounds fine to them? Sheer hypocracy. The only reason the Governor is backing away from this requirement is the bad publicity, which will hurt his political aspirations.
Erin MacStravic
7:57 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Who is going to pay for this proceedure? In many women that are obese, or < 10 weeks along, a traditional ultrasound will be unable to provide a clear picture. So the proceedure will be a complete waste of money.
Impartial Observer
8:34 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Vote them out. Vote them out. Vote them out. Vote them out. Vote them out
Carol Lewis
9:36 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Right you are...vote them out! Yay!
Jane H Euler
10:49 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
I agree. Vote them out.
What an assault on women. It is shocking. What year is this?
Jo Ann Stewart
1:36 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Vote them out!!!!!!!!!
SH
6:12 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
The link to voting records for this intrusive piece of legislation: http://lis.virginia.gov/cgi-bin/legp604.exe?121+vot+HV0657+HB0462
YEAS--Albo, Anderson, Bell, Richard P., Bell, Robert B., Byron, Cline, Cole, Comstock, Cosgrove, Cox, J.A., Cox, M.K., Crockett-Stark, Dudenhefer, Edmunds, Fariss, Farrell, Garrett, Gilbert, Greason, Habeeb, Head, Helsel, Hodges, Hugo, Iaquinto, Ingram, Kilgore, Knight, Landes, Lingamfelter, Loupassi, Marshall, D.W., Marshall, R.G., Massie, May, Merricks, Miller, Minchew, Morefield, Morris, O'Bannon, O'Quinn, Orrock, Peace, Pogge, Poindexter, Purkey, Putney, Ramadan, Ransone, Robinson, Rush, Rust, Scott, E.T., Sherwood, Villanueva, Ware, R.L., Watson, Webert, Wilt, Wright, Yancey, Yost, Mr. Speaker--64.
NAYS--Alexander, Brink, Bulova, Carr, Dance, Englin, Filler-Corn, Herring, Hope, Howell, A.T., James, Joannou, Johnson, Jones, Keam, Kory, LeMunyon, Lewis, Lopez, McClellan, McQuinn, Morrissey, Plum, Scott, J.M., Sickles, Spruill, Stolle, Surovell, Tata, Torian, Toscano, Tyler, Ward, Watts--34.
ABSTENTIONS--0.
NOT VOTING--BaCote, Ware, O.--2.
I'll make notes for election day.
J Anderson
7:04 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Word of advice....be prepared to rally the troops when they all come up for re-elect - and not just online but knocking on doors, making phone calls etc. The only way to change it is to remind everyone......over and over again.
J. Jay Volkert
8:38 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
This issue exposes the practice on Republicans who hide their partisan-social conservative votes from their constituents. For example a woman Delegate like Barbara Comstock votes for the ultra-sound bill but does not include that vote in he report to her constituents, It appears when she gets to Richmond she becomes a good ole boy. She needs to be held responsible for a voting record that does not reflect the interests of Nohrtern Virginians,
Jean R. Duffy
9:25 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
This is just shocking that ANY state would try to mandate such a procedure. But I am even more disturbed that its MY state!! The state has no business telling women they must have an ultrasound of any kind!
Joe Brenchick
9:34 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Sometimes while draining the swamp, Conservatives do tend to get a bit overzealous and need to heed towards a course correction from time to time.
However, it’s still better than having to deal with a bunch of Ultra Liberals and New Castrati’s who seldom heed common sense will all self righteously march lockstep way over to the Far Left – and over the edge.
Jo Ann Stewart
1:42 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Republicans are way over the ledge--as a matter of fact they jumped. This is not just overzealous--this is crazy.
Carol Lewis
9:39 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
What stumps me is why the very people so opposed to mandates of any kind are so anxious to mandate all sorts of things against women. The people who consider any government help to be intruding on their private lives and so quick to intrude on the most intimate parts of people's lives. And by the way, Joe, name calling.... not necessary.
Dave
10:23 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
I was a Republican for most of my adult life until the party turned to social conservatives to rebuild its constituency. The party now primarily represents only the very wealthy and the evangelical right. While claiming to champion individual freedoms the party is quick to deny them when these freedoms conflict with their reactionary agenda. "When facism comes to America it will be wrapped in a flag and carrying a cross" (Sinclair Lewis).
Joe Brenchick
10:56 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Dave - Quoting someone who who’s writings were often done while on a binge and later died from advanced alcoholism, tends to tarnish your assertion.
Jo Ann Stewart
1:43 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
I agree, Dave.
Bristolbell
10:49 am on Thursday, February 23, 2012
One more attempt by the government to tell women what to do concerning their bodies. I thought Republicans were for less government. When will men ( and misguided women) ever get it? A woman' s body is her own. All decisions for what to do about a woman's body rests with the individual woman.
Ania
12:19 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Ridiculous! Vote them out!!!
Monica Dolle Chiralo
1:47 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
For just a moment I would like to step away from the subject matter of this legislation and the issues surrounding it in order to ask a question. Does it bother anyone else that, at least on the surface (and that is all that we get to see), our top elected officals and legislators were ultimately more influenced by Saturday Night Live than by their peers, lobbyists or voters? What changed in the last few days? Were new voices heard in this session? Were more eloquent pleas made on the floor to effect an outcome? Nope. Out-of-state comedians weighed in. They should absolutely have that kind of influence in Richmond. Wonderful . . .
Jo Ann Stewart
1:57 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
McDonnell wants to be VP and all the attention he garnered with this ridiculous legislation were hurting his chances. It doesn't bother me a bit that people outside Virginia think this legislation is stupid because they are right. As a matter of fact I am getting embarrassed to say I was born and still live in Virginia. It is still hard for me to believe that Virginia did not ratify the 19th Ammendment until 1952 and did not allow females to attend UVA-a state school-until 1972.
Carol Lewis
3:25 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Monica, there were petitions signed by some 30,000 people,plus 1000 protestors showed up in Richmond. I think the Assembly was influenced by the people, not SNL and comedians. The people did weigh in....
Sue Sawicki
2:48 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
I agree with above...VOTE THEM OUT!! Republicans are always complaining about the Government being too much in our lives. Let women have control of their bodies!
Sue
Paul M. Kohlenberger
6:10 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
I agree. ALL government OUT of health care!
Joe Brenchick
2:52 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Has anyone seen today’s story in the Washington Examiner on this subject?
http://washingtonexaminer.com/local/virginia/2012/02/va-senate-committee-approves-changes-abortion-ultrasound-bill/304441
It shows Pro-Abortionist Margaret Doyle protesting against a procedure she’ll likely never need.
Carol Lewis
3:27 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Again with the name calling. No one is pro-abortion. I will no longer need such a procedure, but that doesn't change my opposition to it for other women's sake. And still at issue is women's access to birth control. It is all about respecting women enough to make their own decisions for their health and their bodies.
dianne bergin
3:00 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
When I learned that this had passed in the House, I was for the first time in my life, embarassed to say I live in Virginia. I am an Independent, but I cannot vote for anyone who would take away rights from my three daughters. What is they were raped? Can you imagine having to have an transvaginal ultrasound? I had to have one before for a pregnancy and it is awful. I cannot imagine forcing women and young girls to do this. How can a Republican say they are against too much government when they are making legislation on your body? I have been leaning on voting republican in the next election for other reasons... now I just can't see doing that---even with requiring an ultrasound at all. Do you know how frightening that would be to a young girl?
Kristin clarke
3:10 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
This is so outrageous. Maybe they should mandate that men about to have sex first look through a microscope to see their semen and determine if they still want to "risk" sex! My apologies for the crudeness but the bill rather forces it....
Carol Lewis
3:29 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Not crude, Kristin. A good analogy.
Jo Ann Stewart
3:43 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Kinda like Viagra and Birth Control--haven't heard any men protesting against Viagra.
Paul M. Kohlenberger
6:09 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Ms. Stewart-
I am a man, and do not think that government health programs should pay for Viagra, just as government health programs should not provide free contraception. One does not have a right to consequence-free sex, paid for by a third party.
Dave Phelps
3:32 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
For women's sake.... Not the women in the womb -- for that is what over half of them are, who are "terminated." Reminds me of the comment from the 19th Century's moral issue: "Everyone who supported slavery was free. Everyone who supports abortion, was born." Nuff said.
dianne kerlin
5:51 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Abortion is one thing, but the issue here is whether the state and government have the right to have someone penetrate your body with a hard, cold object that HURTS, or make you lay down and have someone put jelly all over your abdomen and lecture you before you make the decision about abortion in the first place.
By the way, if you do not agree on abortion, that is fine. Maybe you can help all the thousands of foster children looking for loving homes, rather than homes where they are abused. They are born and they need help.
Fairfax Resident
10:08 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
Dave - I agree completely! I am a woman and I do not feel as though the commonwealth is "attacking" me! And for those who comment that an ultrasound in "invasive." Hmm, aren't we talking about a pre-abortion procedure? I can only imagine that an abortion is about as invasive as it gets! Dianne Kerlin talks about a "hard, cold object that HURTS" - again, is she talking about the abortion?!? Yeah - hard, cold and it hurts both the mom and the baby. Most women go for annual pelvic exams anyway and they don't complain. Why is this suddenly so invasive?!?!
Dave Phelps
6:08 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Old tired response, what about those who are already born? it is the pro-life community that cares for, places them and helps mothers who don't want to kill their babies in the womb. I don't like the sound of an intrusive test either, but the pro-aborts don't want any restrictions, no ultra sound, no parental notification, no informing on girls impregnated by adult males -- statutory rape it is called. Not to mention sucking the brains out of babies in the act of being born. No, we can't control that. And our president, when he was in the IL Senate, voted against a bill that would protect late term babies who survived abortions from being killed by abortion doctors!! Even liberal senator, Daniel Patrick Moynihan called partial birth abortion infanticide.
Don't stand on a high horse on this one. Abortion is the killing of a unique human life. And a decent government would protect the most innocent of life, life in the womb.
Joe Brenchick
7:22 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Carol - I wasn't name calling, just stating a fact. And facts are stubborn things. Your ether pro-abortion or your anti-abortion. Saying it's pro-choice is a cowardly way of sugarcoating something that some call murder.
Carol Lewis
9:51 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
I disagree that it's cowardly. What you call something is a matter of semantics, not fact. The issue is that women have control over their bodies and their health, including sexual health. As a man you're fortunate that you won't face that choice. Hopefully neither will your wife or daughter. It's not something women take lightly; it's a painful decision. Such decisions are made for a variety of reasons, not just because it's "inconvenient". You have no right to judge those who choose either way, to have the child or to have an abortion. It's a private decision. And I know those who oppose this will say I'm on a high horse, but the women involved are unique human beings too and are perfectly capable of making choices for themselves.
April
10:14 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Either one is for women's rights or anti women's rights.
Jo Ann Stewart
10:58 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
Ok General Assembly--where is that bill against vasectomy.
Joe Brenchick
4:52 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Pro-Abortion or Anti-Abortion, it's pretty black and white. But at the same time, I can see your lower lip jut out as you pout and stomp your foot. Your so cute when your angry! <g>
J Anderson
7:10 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Seriously.....pro abortion? Mr Brenchick - have you EVER had a conversation with a woman whose had an abortion or for that matter lost a baby during pregnancy. The emotional pain they must feel is beyond anything a male could or would feel.
I would also advise everyone to no longer respond to Mr Brenchick's comments....don't give him the satisfaction.
Joe Brenchick
7:57 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Yes, Anderson, Pro-Abortion and on this subject I shall not give ground. You might not like my comments, that’s your right, but you can not refute them!
Elaine
8:35 pm on Thursday, February 23, 2012
and the Governor Bob McDonnell was the one who opposed TSA patdowns at airports as a civil liberty issue. How are they going to implement this ultrasound law? Will they bring a policeman to make a woman to sign a certification that she availed herself of the opportunity to see the ultrasound image or hear the fetal heartbeat? What if she refuses to sign such a certificate? Will she be send to jail?
Carol Lewis
8:14 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Ah, the ultimate male put-down. Editorial note to Joe: the correct spelling is "you're so pretty..." not "your". I disagree with what you say but will defend your right to say it. Now I will take J Anderson's advice and stop responding to you.
SH
9:01 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Nobody cares about Joe. He's laughable. Certainly he's entitled to his puny opinions on a woman's body, but I bet he doesn't have one of his very own. His opinion has absolutely no bearing on women's rights to control their own bodies.
Dave
9:21 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Let's face it: Republican leadership (not the rank and file) opposes abortion primarily because more people means more consumers, which translates into more income for corporations and the so called "job creators" (i.e. the very rich). Morality has little to do with it. They adopted this policy for economic reasons and to woo social conservatives to the Republican party. Their moral hypocracy is studied and intentional.
April
6:49 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
Joe sounds pitiful. I have this visual of him as a child having a temper tantrum.
Kim
9:58 am on Friday, February 24, 2012
Dave, I respectfully disagree. I believe that most Republicans who disapprove of abortion do so for religious reasons. However, it is illegal and immoral for our representatives to insert their personal religious views into state politics.
Dave
6:13 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
I agree that most Republicans who disapprove of abortion do so out of religious conviction. However, I stand by my statement that Republican leadership (not the rank and file) opposes abortion primarily because more people means more consumers, which translates into more income for corporations and the so called "job creators" (i.e. the very rich). Morality has little to do with it from the standpoint of party leadership.
Dave Phelps
3:39 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
The issue can be summed up as, either it is a human life or it is not. If one says that the product of conception is not a human life, then, what is it? It is a women's issue, including an issue for those women who are dismembered inside the place that should be the safest in the world, their own mother's womb. This is human rights at its basic level. When Nazis practiced eugenics, they were condemned. Aren't we doing the same thing?
Kim
3:46 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
Dave, I think you have raised a great point. When does life begin? I have asked friends that and they have different answers. Unless we have a scientific answer to that, it all boils down to religious beliefs.
daniellekha
8:45 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
In reply to Kim, the heart starts beating at 6 weeks after conception. If that isn't a good definer for when life starts if you don't believe it begins at conception, that what is? If we believe life ends when the hearts stops beating, than doesn't it make sense to believe it begins when it starts beating. And FYI, I'm a woman, I've had multiple losses at different stages, I've been in all kinds of situations and abortion is wrong. Pure and simple. Perhaps if we exercised more sexual restraint, we wouldn't be in this pickle (and please don't throw the rape and incest line at me - the majority of abortions are performed on women who simply made a bad choice to engage in sexual activity and their birth control either failed or they used none. If you are willing to accept the consequences of your action (sex does knowingly lead to pregnancy) than perhaps one shouldn't engage. And if you are saying people can't be asked to exercise control, than how are we any better than animals?
Kim
11:07 am on Saturday, February 25, 2012
Danielle, life beginning at the time the heart starts beating is as good an idea as any I've seen. I'm wondering what others think of this. I'll bet many pro-choice would disagree and many pro-life would insist life begins at conception. BTW, I have been very fortunate - three pregnancies within a happy marriage and three healthy children - but others are not so lucky and I don't feel I can judge them unless I have walked in their shoes.
daniellekha
2:30 pm on Saturday, February 25, 2012
Kim - You sound reasonable...I like that! I have been fortunate enough to have four live children and for that I am grateful. I have lost five pregnancies as well and I have walked in some other shoes. I certainly don't judge and I tell my children that all the time but life is so very precious and I think the option to end a life in response to a poor choice is actually an even poorer choice. I also think there need to be more resources to support women who choose to continue pregnancy and either keep or give up for adoption. A lot more resources than there currently are. Right now you can certainly get a free crib, get WIC for food but we need to step up and help with paying for childcare, rent, etc., if we seriously want women to make a choice for life. Which I do!
Ivy Main
4:07 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
An issue that hasn't gotten much attention is the provision in the bill that the unltrasound image must be put in the woman's medical record and left there for at least SEVEN YEARS. What's up with that?
Kim
4:34 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
I know - "permanent record", right? Perhaps this portion of the bill was written by my elementary school principal!
Laura Winslow
4:20 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
I think Dave P speaks too simplistically. Pro life people seem to assume all embryos are equal and they are not. Statistically 1 in 9 embryos fail to make it through to a live birth. 1 in 9. Not all abortions (even those dreaded late term abortions) are because the woman does not want the baby. In 99% of the late term ones, it is because something went dreadfully wrong, and the situation is heartbreaking. Wish the pro lifers would respect the right to privacy and stay out of these traumatic situations. Go sit in on an MIS (miscarriage, infant death, and stillbirths) meeting and broaden your awareness of the need for options that include abortion.
Dave Phelps
4:37 pm on Friday, February 24, 2012
As a father of a still-born daughter, full term, I know all too well the vicissitudes of bringing a child into the world. 1 in 9, well, if that is the number, that is the number. What of the 8 who would otherwise survive? should they be eligible for termination? Sorry Laura, either it is a child, or it is not. Two women get pregnant on the same day, one wants the baby, one does not. One aborts because, it is her choice and it is only a blob of tissue. The other miscarries. To her, a child has died. It can't be both a blob of tissue of no value and a child. This is not theology, it is logic.
Joe Brenchick
12:27 am on Sunday, February 26, 2012
Like may hard topics, the "what if" debate can go on and on without end and the Pro-Abortionists can all the heartstrings they like. However, the vast majority of abortions are done simply because the mother isn't ready to be a mother and the child was simply conceived at an inconvenient time.
Kim
3:44 pm on Sunday, February 26, 2012
Joe, I think you have gone far enough trying to pick a fight with the people who disagree with you. "Pro-abortionist" is not the proper term. It suggests people who encourage, even demand abortion. That is not accurate. They want a woman to be able to CHOOSE the decision that is best for her. Hence the term "pro-choice." You may disagree with someone's beliefs, but you may not persist in name-calling.
daniellekha
11:50 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
Actually Kim, I have a friend on Facebook who clearly does not like my pro-life stance so he was more than happy to post a link to "educate" me for the group NNAF which was having a bowl-a-thon to raise money to provide abortions. If that isn't the definition of pro-abortionist, I don't know what is.....
Joe Brenchick
4:58 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
Well Kim, I believe it's a child, not a choice so Pro-Abortionist is not a proper term. So I guess we agree to disagree.
Carol Lewis
8:04 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
To daniellakha: You wrote: "...and please don't throw the rape and incest line at me - the majority of abortions are performed on women who simply made a bad choice to engage in sexual activity and their birth control either failed or they used none." While you may be right about the majority of abortions, there are still those women who are impregnated as a result of rape or incest. Would you require a woman to bear her rapist's child? A young woman, barely grown, to bear a relative's child? As for the "majority" of abortions, the reasons aren't so simple as you state. Family finances, health of the mother, age of the mother... etc. The decisions are painful and each woman must decide for herself and her family what is best. And why is it that men are left out of the discussion entirely? Don't they have some obligation to wear protection? Women don't get pregnant on their own. Better sex education, which many (not all!) in the anti-choice movement, protest except for abstinence.
daniellekha
11:47 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
Age of the mother? Really? If it's not a case of rape or incest, than abortion is being used to "solve" poor decision making. I think that is unacceptable. I think too often we hold our children to high standards in school and elsewhere but when it comes to sexual behavior, we seem to think they aren't capable of much restraint. Too bad. I think kids are better than that. And I do think if people make the choice to engage in sexual behavior than they need to deal with the consequences - not abort the "problem". What we do need to do is provide more long term support and help to women who make the brave choice to keep the baby whether to raise it or give it up. That's a far braver choice. And yes, I do believe that abortion is never an option - even in cases of rape, incest or the mother's health. It's a human life. It's that simple. And if you think abortion doesn't leave the same kind of psychological scarring that rape or incest does, you are dead wrong. That's the kind of mental scar you can't erase, you can't fix, you can't do over. You live with that choice for the rest of your life and it's a terrible choice to live with.
Carol Lewis
11:58 am on Monday, February 27, 2012
I never said abortion didn't leave scars, but I think that women outside the womb are human beings too. I disagree with your definition of when life begins and I think we'll just have to agree to disagree. But I think it is cruel to force a woman to bear her rapist's child. We might agree that better education on birth control is necessary, of both MEN and women.
Dave Phelps
12:24 pm on Monday, February 27, 2012
Thank you Danielle, for your defense of the defenseless. I would only add, to the never ending pablum about sex ed, that decades ago, when to get a condom you had to ask the pharmacist and sex ed was substantially a class on biology, the illegitimacy rate was a fraction of what it is today. The constant refrain is that we need more sex ed, but with more sex ed comes more babies born out of wedlock and of course, many many more abortions, not to mention STDs. Who actually believes that 16, 17 year olds or younger, don't know about the "birds and the bees?" We did, ages ago before it was blatant prime time "sex ed" on the TV. Clearly there are lots of cultural issues we are dealing with here, like glorifying Hollywood women having children and not marrying the fathers, etc. etc. But to suggest that the cure all is sex ed, well, that has been a failure.
daniellekha
12:36 pm on Monday, February 27, 2012
I totally agree Dave. I think Sex Ed is a joke and a crock. As a parent, I sincerely do not want ANYONE else educating my children about sexual morals other than myself and my husband. I don't mind a science class on human biology that includes the reproductive system but I draw the line there. I think the rise of birth control and wanton sexuality without consequences is the real problem. Regardless, there will always be people who don't follow the rules and don't like the consequences but it makes me so sad to see people disregarding life in such a careless manner. Abortion should never be back-up birth control. Ever. And frankly, if people could realize how hugely important sex is and that is was not meant for pure pleasure alone perhaps the gravity of the act and its consequences would matter more to people. The damage I have seen done to young women in the pursuit of "love" but being used as nothing more than lifesize sex toys is so very sad. They debase themselves and the act when they forget they are worth so much more. And young men need a serious re-education about the value of a woman and the preciousness of her body. And they don't get that when they are told they are really no better than monkeys and are handed condoms and a pat on the head by people who think they aren't capable of restraint or respect....
Carol Lewis
2:02 pm on Monday, February 27, 2012
I'd like to hear your ideas, Daniella and Dave, about how to stop unintended pregnancies. I never suggested sex ed was a cure-all. I'm not being snarky - I'd like to know your ideas, but I'd like you to respect my right to my ideas enough to stop calling them pablum! How do we teach restraint and where? How can we do a better job of it, if it's so bad. What do you suggest? Would you agree that access to birth control for both men and women would help?